Pardon the language.....
Day 22, Rant about something. Get up on your soapbox and tell us how you really feel.
those of you have been reading my blog since the beginning, you know
that I rant about something pretty often. For some reason, since I moved
down to SLC and got married I haven't really had the need.
I'm ranting about judgmental people. I don't want to get too specific
about the situations that have led to this post, but basically I'm
ranting about this not because it's happening to me, but because it's
happening to people around me and I'm there to witness it.
makes you think you know people you have never met? Do you think that
by seeing them every day on TV you know their personalities, their
habits and their faults? You don't. You don't know if they're bitchy or
the world's sweetest person. You don't know why they have the opinions
they do, or their life experiences that have gotten them to where they
are today. YOU DON'T KNOW THEM. And since you dont know them, why do you
think you can judge them? What in that little brain of yours turns on
and says, "I think it's okay to totally judge someone I have never truly
met". It's not okay. JUDGING SOMEONE BECAUSE THEY ARE SKINNY IS JUST AS
BAD AS JUDGING SOMEONE BECAUSE THEY ARE FAT. Just because someone is
skinny doesn't make them bitchy. It doesn't make them selfish or snobby
or rude. It doesn't mean they don't want to be your friend. What is so
wrong with taking care of your body? What is so wrong with making
fitness a priority in your life? What is so wrong with being a size 2?
NOTHING. Just like there is nothing wrong with naturally being a size
14. You shouldn't judge someone just because they are skinny. Don't
assume they don't have any problems in their lives. Don't assume they
are selfish and must care about themselves more than others. Don't
assume that just because they are skinny they look down on everyone else
who isn't. You sit there and say I don't like them because they are
clique and skinny. WTF?!? Screw you. No one would even listen to someone
who said, I don't like you because you're fat and annoying. NO ONE SAYS
THAT. So why is it okay to say something like that about a skinny
person? It's not.
growing up people judged me because I was small, confident and had
spiky hair. I must not like you because my hair is bad ass. Makes sense
right??? No. It doesn't. Just because I had colorful spiky hair doesn't
mean I wasn't a "good girl" or didn't have a testimony at church...but
that is what people assumed. I spent most of my life not caring about
those people because if you judge me before you get to know me than I
don't want you in my life anyway. At this point in my life I have moved
past all that (mostly because I'm not in very many social situations
where I meet new people) so luckily I don't have to deal with that
anymore. But that's why this bothers me so much, because I've been
there...and I thought women grew out of it...but apparently they don't.
line? GET OVER YOURSELF. If you feel the need to sit around and talk
about people you don't even know I feel sorry for you. I"m sorry your
life is so devoid of anything that matters that you have to fill it with
shit that doesn't.